Comments on: Anticipation

By: emma

emma — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 04:50:54 +0000

ah hell, will you please get out of my head?!
I so completely relate, there’s nothing else really to say… except… best of luck on your dating journey and I’ll take inspiration from your courage to dive in and (maybe) dip my toe in the terrifying deaths one of these days myself.
.-= emma´s last blog ..Best 09: Day Four =-.

By: Jennifer McKenzie

Jennifer McKenzie — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 20:21:44 +0000

I also take silence as rejection.
You know, I never did learn to “take it slow”. Luckily, the right guy won’t give a shit.
Hang in there honey.
.-= Jennifer McKenzie´s last blog ..Welcome =-.

By: zipcode

zipcode — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 19:49:53 +0000

Just like me — I hate waiting damnit!

By: chasingparadise

chasingparadise — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 19:36:54 +0000

I’m the most impatient person I know. Seriously. So I guess we’re well suited for friends! lol. Oh I shudder to think at how bad I would be, at how I’d have “no game” if I were to start dating right now, at this point in my life. I can’t wait to read your dating stories!
.-= chasingparadise´s last blog ..Waking up as a bride =-.

By: Miss Over Thinker

Miss Over Thinker — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 19:17:32 +0000

I struggle with that too – the anticipation and impatience – wanting to know if it is going to go anywhere.. in the end what I have realized works for me is to move on.. and if they come back and I am still interested I turn around and give it a shot. But if I have already moved on, then the connection wasn’t strong enough to warrant me coming back.. I just find it easier to deal with it this way.. and another thing I have come to realize (and I may be wrong, but I am choosing to believe this:) no matter how busy a guy is, if he’s really into a girl he’ll find a way to fit her into his schedule.. keeping this in mind, I find the impatience has gone down post dates…
.-= Miss Over Thinker´s last blog ..my own silver lining =-.

By: Kim

Kim — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 19:11:03 +0000

I hate waiting as well. I think it's dreadful that we have to practice patience. And I love that first quote you used. .-= Kim´s last blog ..A Stick in the Eye =-.

By: Dani

Dani — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 17:51:59 +0000

If you figure out how to get off the anticipation/uncertainty rollercoaster, can you pass that on, pretty please? ‘Cause I hear you on this one. If I’m going to have to give up and move on, fella, let me know so I can get to scooping my rejected ass up. Not wallow in uncertainty and undoubtedly obsess (just a touch) about why you won’t be swift and clear.

Also, I now have Ease on Down the Road from The Wiz in my head…thanks, Cat.
.-= Dani´s last blog ..See, i’m not altogether as unreliable as you all imagined i was… =-.