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		<title>By: Tricia</title>
		<link>http://cattails.me/2010/02/the-new-window-to-the-soul/#comment-2941</link>
		<dc:creator>Tricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 02:06:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I shared my blog with 2 friends - one of them came and read a bit, the other never even bothered.  No one in my family knows about it at all.
.-= Tricia´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/MiddleAgeMania/~3/fQVwVtYcD84/if-you-want-god-to-laugh-at-you-make.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;If you want God to laugh at you make some plans...&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I shared my blog with 2 friends &#8211; one of them came and read a bit, the other never even bothered.  No one in my family knows about it at all.<br />
.-= Tricia´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/MiddleAgeMania/~3/fQVwVtYcD84/if-you-want-god-to-laugh-at-you-make.html" rel="nofollow">If you want God to laugh at you make some plans&#8230;</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: courtney</title>
		<link>http://cattails.me/2010/02/the-new-window-to-the-soul/#comment-2940</link>
		<dc:creator>courtney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 01:46:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i don&#039;t remember how i told ryan.  i remember there was little ceremony.  i might have mentioned it... yes, i know i did... the night we met.  before i had the forethought to realize i might become interested in spending more time with him.  it went a little like this:

&quot;YOU DON&#039;T HAVE A COMPUTER?!  BUT HOW DO YOU &lt;I&gt;BLAAAAAWWWWWG?!&lt;/I&gt;  

Yeah.  There was never any escaping that one.
But I know he knows and I know he knows exactly where to find it, so I don&#039;t write anything I don&#039;t want him to see.  He&#039;s also given the official okay to write about him with a few stipulations... so it&#039;s actually worked out great for me.

I don&#039;t think he&#039;s ever actually looked at it though.  I don&#039;t really think he wants to very badly.
.-= courtney´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.courtneyolson.com/2010/02/the-boy-revisited/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Boy, Revisited&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i don&#8217;t remember how i told ryan.  i remember there was little ceremony.  i might have mentioned it&#8230; yes, i know i did&#8230; the night we met.  before i had the forethought to realize i might become interested in spending more time with him.  it went a little like this:</p>
<p>&#8220;YOU DON&#8217;T HAVE A COMPUTER?!  BUT HOW DO YOU <i>BLAAAAAWWWWWG?!</i>  </p>
<p>Yeah.  There was never any escaping that one.<br />
But I know he knows and I know he knows exactly where to find it, so I don&#8217;t write anything I don&#8217;t want him to see.  He&#8217;s also given the official okay to write about him with a few stipulations&#8230; so it&#8217;s actually worked out great for me.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think he&#8217;s ever actually looked at it though.  I don&#8217;t really think he wants to very badly.<br />
.-= courtney´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.courtneyolson.com/2010/02/the-boy-revisited/" rel="nofollow">The Boy, Revisited</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: nicopolitan</title>
		<link>http://cattails.me/2010/02/the-new-window-to-the-soul/#comment-2939</link>
		<dc:creator>nicopolitan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 01:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s nuts to think that knowing the window to the soul these days is done by opening your soul in a new window. But if he&#039;s smart about it, he&#039;ll realize that bloggers are just a type of person that exist among the general population -- but the explanation is actually quite simple:

It&#039;s an outlet.  For life. Everyone has these.  And maybe with that bit of information, he&#039;ll share his outlets with you?
.-= nicopolitan´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://nicopolitan.com/2010/02/22/its-time-to-get-ill/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;It’s Time To Get Ill&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s nuts to think that knowing the window to the soul these days is done by opening your soul in a new window. But if he&#8217;s smart about it, he&#8217;ll realize that bloggers are just a type of person that exist among the general population &#8212; but the explanation is actually quite simple:</p>
<p>It&#8217;s an outlet.  For life. Everyone has these.  And maybe with that bit of information, he&#8217;ll share his outlets with you?<br />
.-= nicopolitan´s last blog ..<a href="http://nicopolitan.com/2010/02/22/its-time-to-get-ill/" rel="nofollow">It’s Time To Get Ill</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Stephanie</title>
		<link>http://cattails.me/2010/02/the-new-window-to-the-soul/#comment-2938</link>
		<dc:creator>Stephanie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 00:10:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The &quot;crazy&quot; is your charm.  You aren&#039;t CRAZY crazy.  Just Cat crazy :)  And it&#039;s what makes you unique, and wonderful and amazing.  HE would be crazy to let you go.  This blog is beautiful and true.  :)
Good luck with the new beau.  I wish you all the happiness in the world.  It&#039;s your time :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The &#8220;crazy&#8221; is your charm.  You aren&#8217;t CRAZY crazy.  Just Cat crazy <img src='http://cattails.me/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   And it&#8217;s what makes you unique, and wonderful and amazing.  HE would be crazy to let you go.  This blog is beautiful and true.  <img src='http://cattails.me/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Good luck with the new beau.  I wish you all the happiness in the world.  It&#8217;s your time <img src='http://cattails.me/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Jennifer McKenzie</title>
		<link>http://cattails.me/2010/02/the-new-window-to-the-soul/#comment-2937</link>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer McKenzie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 23:27:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Um yeah.  Wait. 
I often forget that my oldest sister (The Minister&#039;s Wife) reads my blog until I get emails from her after I&#039;ve spewed something.
But hey, I don&#039;t think ANYTHING you&#039;ve blogged about since I&#039;ve known you online has ever been enough to chase off a good man.
And a man who&#039;d run?  Won&#039;t stick anyway.
But there is the whole thing about sharing too much too soon.  Waiting is good.
Hang in there.
.-= Jennifer McKenzie´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.jenniferleeland.com/2008/07/17/hello-world/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Welcome&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Um yeah.  Wait.<br />
I often forget that my oldest sister (The Minister&#8217;s Wife) reads my blog until I get emails from her after I&#8217;ve spewed something.<br />
But hey, I don&#8217;t think ANYTHING you&#8217;ve blogged about since I&#8217;ve known you online has ever been enough to chase off a good man.<br />
And a man who&#8217;d run?  Won&#8217;t stick anyway.<br />
But there is the whole thing about sharing too much too soon.  Waiting is good.<br />
Hang in there.<br />
.-= Jennifer McKenzie´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.jenniferleeland.com/2008/07/17/hello-world/" rel="nofollow">Welcome</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Kim</title>
		<link>http://cattails.me/2010/02/the-new-window-to-the-soul/#comment-2936</link>
		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 22:04:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What was weird for me was when The Mister&#039;s family started reading my blog.  My own family doesn&#039;t even read it (though not because I kept it a secret from them).  Turns out, they love it and are always telling me stories so I can blog about them.  

The Mister rarely takes issue with the things that I blog about.  But we were already together when I started my blog, so I&#039;m not much help there.
.-= Kim´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/perfectlycursedlife/oEpa/~3/RnIJJqRyZn8/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Grant Me Impatience&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What was weird for me was when The Mister&#8217;s family started reading my blog.  My own family doesn&#8217;t even read it (though not because I kept it a secret from them).  Turns out, they love it and are always telling me stories so I can blog about them.  </p>
<p>The Mister rarely takes issue with the things that I blog about.  But we were already together when I started my blog, so I&#8217;m not much help there.<br />
.-= Kim´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/perfectlycursedlife/oEpa/~3/RnIJJqRyZn8/" rel="nofollow">Grant Me Impatience</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: steve</title>
		<link>http://cattails.me/2010/02/the-new-window-to-the-soul/#comment-2935</link>
		<dc:creator>steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 09:30:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Cat, you have a wonderful blog, some of the best writing on the internet.  We love that you pour your heart and soul out in such eloquent bursts it takes our breath away.  But you know what?  People are more important than words, and leading double lives sucks.  So maybe the answer isn&#039;t even to show him the blog, maybe the answer is to delete it all and maybe start new someday, from a fresh perspective.  We will miss you, but this blog isn&#039;t about us, it&#039;s about you.  I have an old blog that I purged of all references of another and it still lingers on the internet like a bad stink, a pale shadow of what it was, merely because it has so many of my pictures on it.  Trust me, I have had a house burn to the ground, just let things go if they are holding you back - but write a note to your friends first, eh?
.-= steve´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://senseofplace63.blogspot.com/2010/02/word-about-neighbors.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A Word About the Neighbors . . .&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cat, you have a wonderful blog, some of the best writing on the internet.  We love that you pour your heart and soul out in such eloquent bursts it takes our breath away.  But you know what?  People are more important than words, and leading double lives sucks.  So maybe the answer isn&#8217;t even to show him the blog, maybe the answer is to delete it all and maybe start new someday, from a fresh perspective.  We will miss you, but this blog isn&#8217;t about us, it&#8217;s about you.  I have an old blog that I purged of all references of another and it still lingers on the internet like a bad stink, a pale shadow of what it was, merely because it has so many of my pictures on it.  Trust me, I have had a house burn to the ground, just let things go if they are holding you back &#8211; but write a note to your friends first, eh?<br />
.-= steve´s last blog ..<a href="http://senseofplace63.blogspot.com/2010/02/word-about-neighbors.html" rel="nofollow">A Word About the Neighbors . . .</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: gail</title>
		<link>http://cattails.me/2010/02/the-new-window-to-the-soul/#comment-2934</link>
		<dc:creator>gail</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 21:33:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>(blush) I haven&#039;t told anyone either.    I let slip to my DIL and I know she keeps tabs on my blog, but we rarely discuss it, and I don&#039;t think she&#039;s told anyone else about it.    I&#039;ve recently mentioned to several friends and relatives that I have a blog but (imagine!) no one has even asked how to find it . . . what, I&#039;m not the center of the universe?   How rude.
.-= gail´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://grandmagogreen.blogspot.com/2010/02/perfect-day-for-tea.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A perfect day for tea&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(blush) I haven&#8217;t told anyone either.    I let slip to my DIL and I know she keeps tabs on my blog, but we rarely discuss it, and I don&#8217;t think she&#8217;s told anyone else about it.    I&#8217;ve recently mentioned to several friends and relatives that I have a blog but (imagine!) no one has even asked how to find it . . . what, I&#8217;m not the center of the universe?   How rude.<br />
.-= gail´s last blog ..<a href="http://grandmagogreen.blogspot.com/2010/02/perfect-day-for-tea.html" rel="nofollow">A perfect day for tea</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Amy --- Just A Titch</title>
		<link>http://cattails.me/2010/02/the-new-window-to-the-soul/#comment-2933</link>
		<dc:creator>Amy --- Just A Titch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 21:28:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you&#039;re wise to wait a bit---makes the most sense to me.  Also, I had an old blog and waited to reveal it &#039;til I&#039;d told my boyfriend all the juicy stuff...ya know, better to hear it from me than read about it, blah blah blah.  

I do wish to hear more about this Sweetheart, though :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you&#8217;re wise to wait a bit&#8212;makes the most sense to me.  Also, I had an old blog and waited to reveal it &#8217;til I&#8217;d told my boyfriend all the juicy stuff&#8230;ya know, better to hear it from me than read about it, blah blah blah.  </p>
<p>I do wish to hear more about this Sweetheart, though <img src='http://cattails.me/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Miss Over Thinker</title>
		<link>http://cattails.me/2010/02/the-new-window-to-the-soul/#comment-2932</link>
		<dc:creator>Miss Over Thinker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 20:57:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I haven&#039;t told anyone, not one soul about my blog and never plan on telling them. I am single now but even if I were to enter into a relationship, I wouldn&#039;t share my blog with my significant other. I may start a new blog and share the new posts with them, but definitely not my past - but that&#039;s just me.

As for sharing your blog with your sweetheart - I am not sure at what stage your relationship is right now but I would wait a little bit before showing him your blog otherwise it may be too much too soon - just an opinion, not advice.
.-= Miss Over Thinker´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://rookieblogger-randomthoughts.blogspot.com/2010/02/it-is-what-it-is.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;It is what it is&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I haven&#8217;t told anyone, not one soul about my blog and never plan on telling them. I am single now but even if I were to enter into a relationship, I wouldn&#8217;t share my blog with my significant other. I may start a new blog and share the new posts with them, but definitely not my past &#8211; but that&#8217;s just me.</p>
<p>As for sharing your blog with your sweetheart &#8211; I am not sure at what stage your relationship is right now but I would wait a little bit before showing him your blog otherwise it may be too much too soon &#8211; just an opinion, not advice.<br />
.-= Miss Over Thinker´s last blog ..<a href="http://rookieblogger-randomthoughts.blogspot.com/2010/02/it-is-what-it-is.html" rel="nofollow">It is what it is</a> =-.</p>
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